Monday, June 23, 2008

Why Love Hurts? How we can take preventive steps?

Lots of people around the world says that are bitterly got hurt by their love. There is very good link for this Spirtual India->Why Love hurts

Good wordings by sureshsarat:: Love never hurts ! Only possessiveness hurts ! Love stemming out of possessiveness (also called as attachment, infatuation, selfishness) hurts

Love is just a state.

Love is full of devotion and sacrifices, love never hurts. If it hurts its due to misinterpretation and lack of understanding. We need to understand and respect our beloved ones. Proper understanding is very necessary for a healthy everlasting relationship.

Generally it is always better to make yourself busy as far as possible to avoid such hurts. By this you can reduce time of pain. It should not elicit a response. Looking for an alternative or cursing beloved one is never a solution.

Although if problem lasts, its better to go for medical treatment rather then taking too much of alcohol. If you are emotionally weak try to avoid situations and let time heal the things or come close to your beloved one to understand what happened.

1 comment:

jade said...

Thus, running away is only an illusion. Being in love is the only place where we belong. Running away from it, adan