If Love and Feelings are natural then why everyone is not aware about it?

We all know what is love, we also know different types of love and relationship, by birth. We play different roles in life. Every role of life leads to some relationship bounded by love,emotions or need. There may be different biasing propagated from social beliefs(like blood relationship, regional and cultural similarities etc) and experiences.

When we see two pairs bound by love. We accidentally say that, they are in love. How? we claimed that we don't know about love because we never experienced it. Really, this statement is contradictory. When we enter into this world we are nourished and powered by love, there different forms help us grow in different directions. So we all know what is love. For some, it may be extensive caring and need for each other, for rest, it may be physical or emotional attachment. But its natural, we all know it, only we need to realize its existence.

Our mind and heart combination always helped us in creating better decisive powers. Sometimes m distribution or empowering of one over other may lead to wrong decisions. We general have helping nature, if not then we may be hurt somewhere.

Society and personal believes always play important roles in determining. It just put layers on our basic understanding of things i.e. we never try to look in depth and this virtual layer tries to make our believes biased toward some hypothesis(may be wrong).

It seems quite strange that we know how to solve the things or how we can lead to solution and we follow this learning as natural reactions and these things has nothing to do with reflex action. It is in our nature.

What is the best way to make someone understand that you love him/her?

Its always better to do some field work before taking a step ahead. Try to be his/her friend first. Try to come close and understand your love. Workaround to find her liking, disliking, ideal character of his/her life then try to mold you into that shape. Generally its always better to work by giving little hints and the propose someone. If you are having any doubt, don't wait propose your love. Proposal is most important part. If you are thinking that you should not do it due to some specific reasons or lack of daring then change your thinking. Its extremely necessary to propose your love. If conditions are non resistible then change timing. Remember once you missed, you may not get second chance. Its also better if you are not having positive expectations from other end.

If your partner is quite intelligent and having very good understand then he/she may try to relate it with past occurrence to cross check.

My friend proposed me, how I can know whether he/she is in love or not?

Its quite simple to detect whether he loves you or not. Love can be easily tested when you are in trouble and someone have to do some sacrifice to get you. But it is really difficult to tale whether its love or infatuation at first sight. Generally, you can cross check with the behavior, its not easy to propose someone when you are in love. Sometimes person's emotional binding and self respect can cause problem in proper identification. Love/Infatuation also include madness , if your love is having good understanding and quite capable then he/she will take decision in favor of your which seems to be quite "self-less". Its better to ignore at first and give time and try your best to understand whether that person is in love or not.

Remember, one sided love can be quite dangerous, if someone truly loves you than make them understand then we can't proceed in this situations and leave gradually, but end up as friendship.

Its really easy to discover whether their is love or not. We already know what is love. So if we see symptoms of love then we directly say "They are in love" or in our dreams we imagine true love as mixed blessing of caring,understanding, respect,emotions,importance.

What is more important love or compromising?

Love can be a good motivating factor and support but for successful relations it is very important to understand each other and fulfilling one another's need. Compromising behavior makes it easy for you to understand need and plan accordingly. Due to preventive behavior, sometimes love may even cause problem in proper decision making. So you can go for either side. Love is not the only factor which influence one's life but its more short of bindings.

We are in a relation, are we in love or infatuation?

If you are in a good relationship you don't need to check whether it is love or not. Love is strong driving factors for successful relationship. Although infatuation is never taken as important agent for relations, but it is. Sometimes, infatuation are much stronger than love because infatuation directly attacks your mind and let you feel good that's complete madness state. But sometimes it is much powerful in many aspects. One good thing about infatuation is that you are quite possessive about your beloved one that cause you to take necessary actions to get him/her on the other hand love is much of devotion and sacrifice end. Person who truly loves someone may not get anything (although they don't require anything else) out of that relationship, but infatuation can be a good learning lesson. So infatuation can not be stated as "something bad". It is basis of many love marriages and good relationship.

Its easy to detect whether you are in infatuation or love. We are not publishing this in public interest, if necessary mail us: freeblogservice@gmail.com

Why Love includes sacrifices? Is it important?

Love is giving rather then taking something. So love includes devotion and sacrifices that makes it divine. Generally love is taken as synonyms of "selfless" and upto some extent it is.

Never do such sacrifices which can leads you at depreciation state unless strictly needed. Because if you sacrifice for some one which makes you fall will lead you to non deserving candidate for your beloved one i.e. you may not be capable enough to take care or give enormous happiness to beloved one, what he/she deserves.

Why Love Hurts? How we can take preventive steps?

Lots of people around the world says that are bitterly got hurt by their love. There is very good link for this Spirtual India->Why Love hurts

Good wordings by sureshsarat:: Love never hurts ! Only possessiveness hurts ! Love stemming out of possessiveness (also called as attachment, infatuation, selfishness) hurts

Love is just a state.

Love is full of devotion and sacrifices, love never hurts. If it hurts its due to misinterpretation and lack of understanding. We need to understand and respect our beloved ones. Proper understanding is very necessary for a healthy everlasting relationship.

Generally it is always better to make yourself busy as far as possible to avoid such hurts. By this you can reduce time of pain. It should not elicit a response. Looking for an alternative or cursing beloved one is never a solution.

Although if problem lasts, its better to go for medical treatment rather then taking too much of alcohol. If you are emotionally weak try to avoid situations and let time heal the things or come close to your beloved one to understand what happened.

What is Love? Why it is eternal?

We read many novels,books, magzine in identifying most mysterious thing i.e. 'Love'. Love is not emotions, love is not merely feelings. Love is divine gift of god to bind us together. Love is strong feeling of respect and dignity of one's important towards other which includes respect, caring, emotions and infact madness which drives them all together. Its full of sacrifices and devotions and continue to last forever. We can hide it in our daily life but we can't kill it. It just let you feel that you are having more meanings of your life and someone else is preserving more importance for you.

There is nothing called "true love", love is meant to be true. There is no separation of types of love. It can be between blood relations, guardians or your beloved one.

Love is eternal i.e. someone will always have importance in your life. Love is not derived by emotions but emotions empowers love.